Childhood Memories - Thanksgiving
When I was a child Thanksgiving marked the start of the Christmas Season. There was a big parade in downtown Pottsville in the morning. The city turned on the lights that decorated the pole of every street light and were draped across the streets. Thanksgiving dinner was always crowded with aunts, uncles and cousins. We had it at my maternal grandmother’s house. In the evening we would go to my paternal grandparents’ place where there was a lot more to eat. The long wait for Christmas had begun.
Childhood Memories – Christmas
Decorations, other than the tree, went up on Christmas Eve. That went up the last weekend before Christmas. Of course, we had the obligatory trainset running around the tree. We went to bed but had trouble sleeping. Finally, morning came. We opened our gifts and then went to church. Mass on Christmas Day always seemed special. From there we went to my paternal grandparents’ for Christmas Dinner. This was actually my grandmother’s second big culinary exercise in about 12 hours. There was the Christmas Eve Dinner of the Seven Fishes and we only got to that when we were older. It began late in the evening, about 2200 hours, I think and it was 0100 before we got home and to bed. By contrast Christmas Dinner was relatively simple but there was enough food for an army, all of it made by my grandmother and her daughters.
Following Diner we went around the neighborhood visiting relatives and neighbors. Everyone had a train of some sort around their tree and we had to see all of them and watch them run. It was great fun. Decorating with lights around windows and doorways was very popular. Walking through a doorway trimmed in colored lights was like walking through an entrance to a magic land. There was a tree, trains and snacks of all types. We and our cousins played with the toys received from “Santa” while the adults talked about, what I have no idea. Everyone was playing Christmas music of some sort and you heard Gene Autry sing “Rudolph, The Red-Nosed Reindeer about 30,000 times between Thanksgiving and New Year’s.
The Twelve Days of Christmas that started on Christmas Eve ended with Epiphany and we took down the decorations and packed them away until next Christmas. For a few lucky ones, the trainset stayed up a bit longer or, if we were really lucky it got moved to a place in the attic or
basement.
Christmas is not like that now. The only reason the season does not begin right after Labor Day is that Halloween generates a lot of retail sales (the most of any other holiday than Christmas). Instead of focusing on family, friends and church, we now are bombarded with ads and commercials urging us to spend, spend, spend. We are made to feel that unless we spend a lot on money on someone we do not love them. It is too bad because we seem to have lost the entire “Reason for the Season.”
It is disappointing to see people taking down their decorations the day after Christmas because “Christmas is over until next year.” It is only just getting started but they do not realize that. They are missing the best time of the year when there is a break in everyday life for most of us and we can get together with our friends and families to enjoy being with those we love and cherish. Too bad people do not realize this as they are missing something very special.
When I was a child Thanksgiving marked the start of the Christmas Season. There was a big parade in downtown Pottsville in the morning. The city turned on the lights that decorated the pole of every street light and were draped across the streets. Thanksgiving dinner was always crowded with aunts, uncles and cousins. We had it at my maternal grandmother’s house. In the evening we would go to my paternal grandparents’ place where there was a lot more to eat. The long wait for Christmas had begun.
Childhood Memories – Christmas
Decorations, other than the tree, went up on Christmas Eve. That went up the last weekend before Christmas. Of course, we had the obligatory trainset running around the tree. We went to bed but had trouble sleeping. Finally, morning came. We opened our gifts and then went to church. Mass on Christmas Day always seemed special. From there we went to my paternal grandparents’ for Christmas Dinner. This was actually my grandmother’s second big culinary exercise in about 12 hours. There was the Christmas Eve Dinner of the Seven Fishes and we only got to that when we were older. It began late in the evening, about 2200 hours, I think and it was 0100 before we got home and to bed. By contrast Christmas Dinner was relatively simple but there was enough food for an army, all of it made by my grandmother and her daughters.
Following Diner we went around the neighborhood visiting relatives and neighbors. Everyone had a train of some sort around their tree and we had to see all of them and watch them run. It was great fun. Decorating with lights around windows and doorways was very popular. Walking through a doorway trimmed in colored lights was like walking through an entrance to a magic land. There was a tree, trains and snacks of all types. We and our cousins played with the toys received from “Santa” while the adults talked about, what I have no idea. Everyone was playing Christmas music of some sort and you heard Gene Autry sing “Rudolph, The Red-Nosed Reindeer about 30,000 times between Thanksgiving and New Year’s.
The Twelve Days of Christmas that started on Christmas Eve ended with Epiphany and we took down the decorations and packed them away until next Christmas. For a few lucky ones, the trainset stayed up a bit longer or, if we were really lucky it got moved to a place in the attic or
basement.
Christmas is not like that now. The only reason the season does not begin right after Labor Day is that Halloween generates a lot of retail sales (the most of any other holiday than Christmas). Instead of focusing on family, friends and church, we now are bombarded with ads and commercials urging us to spend, spend, spend. We are made to feel that unless we spend a lot on money on someone we do not love them. It is too bad because we seem to have lost the entire “Reason for the Season.”
It is disappointing to see people taking down their decorations the day after Christmas because “Christmas is over until next year.” It is only just getting started but they do not realize that. They are missing the best time of the year when there is a break in everyday life for most of us and we can get together with our friends and families to enjoy being with those we love and cherish. Too bad people do not realize this as they are missing something very special.